This Sunday, we will delve into the idea that striving for flawlessness may not be a beneficial goal. Instead, we can think of perfection as "wholeness." Just like when we say a meal, a vacation, or a visit was "perfect," we mean it had all the elements to make it good. It doesn't mean there was nothing wrong; maybe there could be improvements, and yet, it was perfect. At the end of each service, we affirm, "I accept life just the way it is and just the way it is not." This acceptance embodies perfection, the wholeness of all that is.
We warmly invite you to our Sunday Service on July 21, 2024. You can attend in person at 9 AM or 11 AM or join us online at 9 AM. This week, our topic is "Imperfect Practices."
- Embrace Imperfection as a Path to Growth and Authenticity
- Step Out of the Comfort Zone as a Path to Growth and Authenticity
- Explore Vulnerability as a Path to Growth and Authenticity
Embracing Imperfection
As a young adult, I was obsessed with fitting in, which made me miserable because I never quite succeeded. I didn’t have the right interests, the right clothes, or the right background. I pretended not to care, but I did. When I discovered the Center, I learned about the power of changing my mind. I started to care about things that were good for me and the opinions of people who were kind and accepting. This shift brought immense relief and allowed me to accept my imperfect self.
Richard Branson’s Story
Richard Branson, the founder of Virgin Group, turned his severe dyslexia into a strength. Traditional schooling methods didn’t work for him, and he often felt lost. He decided to drop out of school at 15. Instead of hiding his dyslexia, he put it on the table and worked around it by hiring people to read to him. This approach ensured Virgin's communication was always clear and effective, turning his reading difficulty into an advantage.
Stepping Out of the Comfort Zone
Growth and self-discovery happen outside the comfort zone. Staying in the safe zone protects perfectionism, but embracing the unfamiliar, taking risks, and saying yes to new experiences leads to growth.
Shonda Rhimes’ Story
Shonda Rhimes transformed her life by stepping out of her comfort zone. After realizing she never said yes to anything, she embarked on a "year of yes." She committed to saying yes to everything that scared her or made her nervous, including public speaking, social settings, self-care, and spending time with her family. This journey led her to live authentically and fulfill her own needs and aspirations.
Rachel Brosnahan’s Experience
Rachel Brosnahan shared how her role in "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel" taught her the importance of breaking personal barriers. Initially told she wasn’t funny, she learned the value of not telling yourself you can’t do things and discovered her comedic talent.
Embrace Vulnerability
Embracing vulnerability and authenticity allows us to connect more deeply with ourselves and others. Being vulnerable means being authentic, not trying to be someone else. When we are more of ourselves, it encourages others to be themselves and see us for who we truly are.
Emily McDowell’s Story
Emily McDowell, creator of Emily McDowell & Friends, used her experience as a cancer survivor to create greeting cards that express what people with serious illnesses want to hear. Her honesty and realness resonated with people, growing her business and creating authentic connections.
Applying These Principles
This week, consider:
- Embracing your faults as part of your wholeness and exploring how they can be strengths.
- Stepping out of your comfort zone and approaching challenges with a growth mindset.
- Embracing vulnerability and authenticity, allowing yourself to be seen as you truly are.
Join Us in Celebrating Rev. Russ's Ordination
After our services, we invite you to join us at 1 PM for Rev. Russ's ordination. It’s a special occasion, and everyone is welcome to attend.
We look forward to seeing you this Sunday as we explore these powerful practices together and celebrate our community.
In peace and gratitude,
Edward Viljoen
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