Edward Viljoen: What forgiveness is. What forgiveness isn't.

Friday, February 25, 2011

What forgiveness is. What forgiveness isn't.

By: Edward Viljoen on Friday, February 25, 2011

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Maybe this list of what forgiveness is not, may be helpful:

· Forgiveness is not condoning unkindness

· Forgiveness is not forgetting that something painful happened.

· Forgiveness is not excusing poor behavior

· Forgiveness does not have to be an otherworldly
or religious experience

· Forgiveness is not denying or minimizing your hurt

· Forgiveness does not mean reconciling with the offender

· Forgiveness does not mean you give up having feelings.

What is forgiveness?

· It is a state of freedom

· It is relieving yourself of the burden of the past

· It is embracing the prospect of being a whole person again

· It is giving the person you forgive (even yourself) the freedom to
live in peace and the chance to also be a whole person again.

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